This is really just backing up aslkahuna's post, with a few numbers.
Methane is a powerful GHG (one molecule of methane has about 21 times the warming effect as a molecule of CO2). However it is still seen as a minor GHG, as it's concentration in the atmosphere is only about 1.7 ppm (as compared to CO2's 388 ppm).
Methane comes from a variety of sources (for example landfill sites, paddy fields, slurry, and termites). Methane concentrations have risen by about 150% since pre-industrial times, but started slowing down about 20 years ago and have been pretty flat over the last decade.
Methane doesn't last as long in the atmosphere as CO2 does - it lasts for about 8 years. Mostly it reacts with hydroxyl radicals (-OH) and breaks down into water and CO2. As aslkahuna says, it's far too diffuse to "ignite" - lightning probably does burn some molecules, but the heat generated isn't enough to cause a global chain reaction.
The amount of methane that could be released from clathrates and permafrost is a concern, but the science is poor at the moment - we don't have a good idea of how much could be released, or when it would happen.
When the science is poor, the IPCC exclude it - so any future release of methane in the future would make things worse than already predicted.
Personally I'm not worried about methane. I suspect that if we warm the planet enough to start it to release copious amounts of methane, we'll already have ruined it.
One final point - the fact that the Jovian and Saturnian atmospheres don't explode every time lightning strikes is probably due to an absence of oxygen.